The Happily Ever After Method™
The Proven Foundations To Love That Lasts (and Laughs).
Imagine waking up light again - no eggshells, no guessing games.
This isn’t a fairytale. It’s a proven 8-week framework that enables you to rewire the patterns keeping you apart and rebuild lasting trust, joy, and connection.
We weren’t given the tools (or a healthy framework) so I spent over a decade refining them for you,
Your 8-Week Signature Journey to Rewrite Your Love Story
Imagine this instead...
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You feel safe to disagree without fear of fights spiraling out of control.
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Your conversations actually land - you feel seen and understood.
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Intimacy feels natural again - not forced, awkward, or gone for good.
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You trust each other more deeply than you have in years.
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And for the first time in a long time - you feel hopeful about your future together.
- And if you are still newly in a relationship, you will feel the confidence to handle any storm that life throws at you, together.
This isn’t a dream. It’s exactly what happens when you follow the Happily Ever After Method.
Case Study: From Roommates to Rekindled Lovers
When Sarah* and Daniel* started working with me, they weren’t sure they’d make it.
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Married for 9 years.
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Conversations had turned into silence.
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Sarah felt invisible. Daniel felt like a constant disappointment.
By Week 2, Sarah could express her needs without fear of a fight. By Week 1, they both understood why their fights went the way it did, and how to stop that cycle!By Week 5, Daniel could listen with much less defensiveness.
By the end, Daniel said:
“For the first time in years, I have hope. I used to feel like I was failing and disappointing her no matter what I did. We still have work to do, but now we have the tools and insights we need. I haven’t had this much fun with my wife in years.”
*Names changed for client confidentiality.
Imagine you could...
Communicate in a way that brings you closer - not further apart
No more loops of silence, shutdowns, or saying the same thing in ten different ways and still not being heard.
Learn how to translate each other’s needs and fears into real conversations that actually land. Build trust, repair quickly, and stop letting resentment pile up.
Build your confidence with real-time support
Tools only work if you use them the right way. That’s why I’m in your pocket - on Telegram with you daily.
No more second-guessing if you were too harsh, too soft, or too much. I’ll help you tweak the tools in real time so they fit your relationship - and actually create change instead of collecting dust.
I will be on Telegram 1-2x daily, Monday to Friday.
Reignite intimacy and desire (even if you're the one that didn't want it).
Feel safe, wanted, and deeply connected again - whether you’re rebuilding after years of distance or just starting out.
Desire grows when there’s safety, trust, and space to be fully yourself. This module helps you rebuild all three, so intimacy doesn’t feel pressured, awkward, or “gone for good.”
Love doesn’t have to fade, break down, or feel out of reach. With the right tools and support, your “happily ever after” doesn’t have to be wishful thinking.
Will your relationship be 100% “fixed” after this program? No. Please don't trust any program that promises that in 8 weeks. But you will have the tools, confidence, and support to write your own love story - one that feels safe, secure, and worth believing in.
"We did .... (a well known international couples program) and your toolbox program was so much more. Thank you!" Husband
Introducing
The Happily Ever After METHOD
The Happily Ever After Method is the proven approach for individuals or couples where you'll learn to stop the subconscious patterns keeping you distant, tools and scripts to fight less and communicate deeper, release the resentment, and rebuild trust and intimacy through the power of these 8 pillars.
Perfect for parents, individuals, couples, anyone desiring deeper connection without pleading.
In this course, you'll learn how to
Break the Fight Cycle
Stop repeating the same fights and finally know why they keep happening.
Feel Seen
Feel seen and understood, instead of shut down or brushed off (or overlooked).
Rebuild Trust
Build emotional safety and trust so that you can actually relax in your relationship.
Boundaries that Protect
Discover how to hold boundaries without guilt, losing others, or loosing yourself.
Practical Tools for Real Life
Learn tools that work in your real life, not just in theory. With support in between the sessions to make sure what you learn is applicable.
The Resentment Reset Method
Turn resentment into real repair and reconnection. Feel safer to speak up and be protected.
Intimacy that Sparks Desire
Create intimacy that feels natural, not forced. Even if your the one that isn't as interested in it.
Find Your Confidence
Transform your late night questions into confidence. Understanding your relationship patterns and set backs to revive.
About Tehilla
I’ve spent over a decade helping moms, dads and couples break free from the patterns that keep love hard - the people-pleasing, the resentment, the fights that never seem to get somewhere.
I began as a play therapist, but quickly saw that when parents felt reconnected and supported, everything changed for the whole family. That shifted my work to focus on relationships at their core. Clients often tell me I’ve shown them things years of therapy never touched - because my approach goes deeper than scripts or tips.
I help you rewire the patterns that keep you stuck and give you tools you can use in the heat of the moment. My heart is simple: to help you feel secure, desired, and chosen in your relationship, and to show couples how to rebuild trust, intimacy, and laughter so love feels lighter and freer again. And your children can reap the confidence they get from seeing healthy hopeful love.
Feel free to learn more at www.thecouplesconnection.com
Caroline G., Clinical Psychologist
I enjoyed the course tremendously and have great respect for Tehilla's wisdom, insights, research and the compassion with which she helps us to come to grips with many challenges that we as couples are grappling with on a daily basis.
Thank you - well worth it!
Kat C.,
WWWOWOWWW. Mind blown!
We could easily identify our ‘injury’ and we will keep this in mind going forward. How valuable to now understand why we act the way we do.
THIS was AMAZING! Made me tear up!
I will practice this!! Really enjoying this! Thanks!
Husband of client,
Dear Tehilla,
I just want to get straight to the point and say a heartfelt thank you for being such a kind, caring person for my wife. You have definitely helped her become a more positive person, someone who no longer worries about what others think or say about her. She believes in herself and is very excited and ready for the baby that is on the way. We, ___ and I, are in agreement with each other, and things are going well.
Thank you.
Here's how the curriculum breaks down
Module 1 - Attachment Injuries & Nervous System Patterns
Cycles That Break (& How to Break Them First)
Spot the subconscious sabotaging patterns that keep pulling you back into the same fights - and learn how to stop them before they start.
Module 2 - The Art of Communication
Speaking So You're Actually Heard (& Next Level Translation Skills)
Find the words, tone, and timing that make your partner actually listen (and respond without defensiveness).
Module 3 - Conflict Management
It's not About Never Disagreeing But How To Disagree without Destroying Relational Safety
Turn arguments into growth instead of distance. Learn simple repair steps that bring calm and closeness back quickly.
Module 4 - EQ: Emotional Intelligence without Needing To be a Poet
Head to Heart Relationships
Stop snapping, shutting down, or spiraling. Handle anger, shame, and fear in ways that make you feel proud, not guilty.
Module 5 - Boundaries For Thriving Love
Boundaries aren't about keeping people out but defining your space so you don't loose you in love.
Say what you need without guilt. Create space and safety that actually increases love and intimacy.
Module 6 - Resentment Reset
Release the heavy emotional weight you’ve been carrying so you can feel lighter, freer, and closer again.
Module 7 - Rebuilding Trust & Intimacy
Learn how to repair broken trust and bring back closeness - emotionally, physically, and spiritually - even if it feels like distance has taken over.
Module 8 - Identity & Way Forward
Create a shared vision for your relationship, rewrite your vows to each other, and design a future that feels safe, exciting, and unshakably yours.
You've got questions?
We have answers!
Is this only for married people?
Can things really change if my partner doesn't want to do this too?
Why does it cost more if we both doing it? Can he just watch the recordings?
Do you have any spots for those who can't afford it but really know this will help them?
What if we / I can't make it live to the call?
Do you do payment plans?
If I am in South Africa do I need to pay dollars too?
I've done your course, The Ultimate Couples Toolbox. Is this the same thing?
Can I gift this to someone?
What is Telegram?
Can my partner join later if they decide to?
Do you offer refunds?
Plus you get these Bonuses
Bonus 1
From Conflict to Communication – PDF Guide
Exact words and ways to turn fights into teamwork.
Value: $27
Bonus 2
Post-Conflict Analysis – See What Really Happened in That Last Fight
Unpack the real wounds, fears and needs so you don’t repeat the same cycle.
Value: $37
Bonus 3
How NOT to Validate Your Partner
Avoid the common communication mistakes that backfire.
Value: $17
Bonus 4
10 Sneaky Signs You Might Be Victimizing Yourself
Catch subtle patterns that quietly drain your power.
Value: $17
Bonus 5
“Conversation Sparks for Closer Couples”
Quick, engaging questions you can ask over dinner, on a walk, or before bed to keep the fun alive without dreading what to speak about.
Value $17
Bonus 6
"Parenting From the Same Book"
End parenting clashes and get on the same page.
Value: $37
Bonus 7
"Why Money Fights Are So Confusing"
Discover what’s really behind financial tension.
Value: $27
Bonus 8
"Intimacy Reset Mini-Guide"
Bring closeness back without pressure or awkwardness.
Value: $47
Bonus 9
"Relationship Relapse Reset"
Spot old patterns before they sabotage progress.
Value: $37
Here's what makes this different:
As a therapist in private practice, passionate about making transformation that works for families, I've combined the top tools my private 1:1 clients have used over the last 10 years! We need systems that work, not more things to do and doesn't work!
Proven Techniques
With over a decade of private practice I have seen hundreds of people transform their relationships with these tools I share with you here.
Support In Between
Sometimes something can sound so good in theory but it's hard to implement it in the moment! Now, you can share with me in the moment what's going on so I can help you tweak it or see whats the resistance to really make sure things change for you in real life too.
Get to the root - fast!
Tools are great - when we are calm. But our first relationship experiences, patterns and wounds are often behind our arguments and hurts. Understanding our triggers help us go deeper than the communication tools ever could.
Real life tools, not just theory
I've studied under some of the top names in couples therapy (like level 2 in Gottmans, level 1 in Terry Real's work, Attachment mastery by Diane Poole Heler, Peter Levine, Elen Byder, etc) so I have a vast choice of approaches and systems that I have tested and see what works and what doesn't - so you don't have to.
Don't just take it from me...
Here's what the most recent round of THE HAPPILY EVER AFTER students have to say:
This HEA course has been very intense.
It took me on a roller coaster of emotions, since it made me look at all different kinds of topics in our relationship that I usually avoid.
So much to discover about oneself and the way I relate and act.
Your insights and material you share is huge and will take me more time to go over it again and again.
- K
You've given us hope, which I think is one of the most underrated emotions.
I'm not sure how long it will take for us both to feel truly safe. What I do know is how deeply grateful I am for your genuine effort to listen and help.
Previous marriage therapy left us feeling discouraged, but your approach has been so insightful and encouraging.
- E
If you want to learn to understand the dynamics of your relationship and ways of growing together instead of drifting apart,
this HEA course is a great help with all the insights and tools Tehilla lets you in on.
It gives me hope to actually change the way I used to act, because I see who I want to be and what I want to enjoy more.
- U
Divorce doesn't cause broken homes, it's a symptom of it. Even if staying for the kids is your only reason for being here, something beyond just surviving your marriage is available.
You’ve made it this far for a reason.
Most people don’t get here.
They get distracted.
Or talked out of it.
Or scroll away thinking, “Maybe next time.”
But not you.
Because something in you is tired of band-aids and begging.
You’re not looking for more advice.
You’re looking for relief. For clarity. For connection that doesn’t feel like a battle.
This is where the shift begins.
Hope can be painful when you're starving. Living off breadcrumbs and feeding the family with those bare minimals.
There is no badge for martyrdom, and I am here to create a movement of marriage revival. Happily Married is a beautiful template for our kids.
Divorce or sucking it up and staying miserable aren't the only two options.
Happily Ever After is another option. Join the movement. Get the method.
You're Almost In!
The Happily Ever After Method
Live Relationship Reset – Starts 9 October 2025
An early Christmas gift to yourself and your loved ones.
Let’s Make This Official
You’re signing up for:
✔️ 8 Live Group Calls (value: $2400)
✔️ 9 Weeks of Telegram support (value: $1750)
✔️ Pre-Work Assessment (value: $300)
✔️ Full Relationship Workbook (Value: $97)
✔️ Course Lifetime Replay Access
✔️ Bonus Vault (scripts, tools, reparenting, meditations & more) - Value $500
After Payment You’ll Receive:
✔️ Immediate confirmation email
✔️ Telegram information
From the 9th of October you will have access to:
✔️ The assessment links and questionnaires
✔️ Telegram private group access
✔️ Call link for the first session on 9 October
VALUE over: $5,000 (and will be $3,000 in the future)
BUT now only:
💳 $997 USD (for individuals)
💳 $1450 USD (for couples)
🇿🇦 R15,000 or R23,500 ZAR for South Africans
Feel free to email me directly ([email protected]) if you do not wish to pay via PayPal.
With over a decade in private practice, I am committed to supporting you. Got questions? Ask me: [email protected]
I don't want you to sign up for anything you don't feel comfortable with. So feel free to ask any questions first.
